Monthly Archives: January 2014

Cheats meatballs

Hello Dear Reader,

I went to and from work by train today. The low lying farmland either side of the train was water logged; the water courses and rivers had burst their banks and the brown murky water flooded the valleys. We’re due another storm, high seas, high tides, heavy rain and yet more floods. Worse is yet to come. With weather like this, we need all the warmth a hot meal meal can comfort us with.

These are officially the world’s easiest meatballs.

To make them, you will need:

3 sausages with the skin removed 99p
250g of minced beef 1.00
1 onion, finely chopped (mine were not chopped finely enough but I was too hungry to care!) 4p
3 tablespoons of instant gravy.5p

1. Heat the oven to 180.
2. Mix the sausage meat, mince and onions.
3. Squish together with your hands until well mixed.
4. Form into small balls (they cook more quickly)
5. Cook for half an hour.
6. Make the gravy as directed.
7. Pour onto meatballs.
8. Return to the oven for ten minutes.

I purposefully cooked more cabbage and mash than required. I now have enough to make into bubble and squeak for breakfast in the morning.

I poured the gravy over the meatballs to soak up some of the fat and meat juices. The whole meal was unctuous and bone warming. Steamed savoy cabbage and hot buttery mash completed the entire supper.


Over to you Dear Reader, who else has adverse weather? Who else needs to eat wholesome and hearty food to get through one cold wet day after the next? I see that the weather has drastically cooled in Australia and that parts of America are still soooooo cold! Here, it’s just wet!

Whatever the weather, you’ve got to try these meatballs!

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxxx

Spinach and ‘ricotta’ ravioli with tomato sauce


Hello Dear Reader,

Now I can make pasta, I’m on a roll…………there’s no stopping me. If you made your pasta from basics flour, this would actually be extremely cheap. I made my pasta from gluten free flour so it was more expensive for me but it doesn’t need to be expensive for you.


I don’t have a pasta machine or any fancy pasta cutters so I just used my rolling pin and a small biscuit cutter.

A hearty dollop of the filling.
1 bag of spinach - finely sliced and steamed
2 cloves of garlic - finely diced
1 tbsp of olive oil
4 heaped tablespoons of grated Italian hard cheese - the supermarket basic is fine for this.
Sprinkle of ground nutmeg - optional and I didn’t have any but that’s what the recipe said.
Half a tub of cream cheese - again, supermarket basics will do.

  • steam the spinach and place in seive - let all the water drip out - it’s mostly its own water.
  • heat the olive oil and add the garlic
  • add the spinach
  • add the ‘Ricotta’……………which I didn’t have, so I added some cream cheese.
  • add the grated Italian hard cheese

Place a spoonful onto one half of the ravioli and just dampen the edge with a wet finger (dip finger into cup of water)
Pop the ‘lid’ on and press the edges shut.

Have a pan of water on a rolling boil and drop a few in at a time - they are cooked when they float.

Here are the spinach and ‘ricotta’ gluten free space ships all ready for a generous helping of home made tomato sauce.

To make the sauce, you will need

1 tin of basics chopped tomatoes
2 cloves of garlic - finely minced
2 tbsp of olive oil
The recipe called for some fresh basil but in the absence of any basic in the house, I added a generous spoon of pesto.

  • Heat the oil
  • add the garlic
  • cook for a few second
  • add the tinned tomatoes
  • add the pesto
  • simmer for 20 minutes
  • I always add a pinch of sugar - it does something to the tomatoes.

You could be really indulgent and sprinkle some cheese on top but this was just perfect for myself and Dearly Beloved.

I suppose Jamie Oliver would drizzle this with olive oil but it doesn’t need any added fat as this is fresh and light.

I would go so far as to say that this would make a great dinner party starter in a smaller amount or a great lunch for friends. Now over to you, Dear Reader. Yesterday, it was pie fillings, today it’s time for you to share your favourite pasta dish, or sauce or ravioli/tortellini filling. Come clean, who else is a pasta maker and finds the fiddly bits absorbing and yet so relaxing.

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxx

Meat and Potato Pie

Hello Dear Reader,

For many years, I had no success whatsoever with normal pastry. I then saw the Hairy Bikers make pastry in a food processor and followed suit. From hence forth, I’ve never used my hands ever again. Maybe, I have hot hands or I’m heavy handed but any pastry I make by hand is inedible. I have no idea why, but my first few attempts at gluten free pastry were all handmade. You would think I would’ve learned my lesson and just got the food processor out. This time, I’ve used real butter and the food processor and there was no surprise but it was really good this time.

The recipe I used was

300g of Dove’s gluten free flour
pinch of salt
150g cold butter in cubes
1 teaspoon of Xanthum gum
1 beaten egg
water to bind if required.

  • Add flour, salt and Xanthum gum to FP
  • Add butter
  • Pulse until breadcrumbs
  • Add egg - pulse - this maybe all the fluid you need
  • Add drops of water if required, trickle into the FP whilst pulsing
  • When big lumps stop and place on floured board
  • Shape into a dough and chill - the longer the better


I cooked braised steak yesterday, purposefully cooking enough to have in a pie tonight. I also cooked enough potatoes and veggies to add to the meat and gravy and add the pastry to make a pie.

Cook the pie for 30 minutes at 180 degrees which is long enough to steam some spring greens. Having been pastry deprived this buttery, crumbly deliciousness was just what I needed.


I even managed a pasty with some spare veggies, a sprinkle of olive oil, some garlic and grated cheese. Dearly Beloved will have pie for lunch tomorrow and Friday and I will take half the pasty to work to eat over two days.



This is my fifth attempt to make GF pastry and I’m so glad it was edible this time! It also makes a really affordable meal to use leftover and make a pie for not just supper but subsequent packed lunches too. Here in England, a pie has meat! Steak and Kidney pie is my favourite!

Over to you Dear Reader, what do you like in a pie? What’s special to your region? What pies are you eating in the US? Canada? Australia? NZ? France? Germany? or the regions of the UK? What do you have in your pies in Ireland? Scotland and Wales? Come and join in the pie-arty………..the more ideas the better!

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Start the week well.

Hello Dear Reader,

Thanks so much for all the comments, tweets, re tweets and emails, it’s always great to hear from you. I love a new week and always feel the most energised on a Monday. This is the day when I plan the week and make sure I’m ready for the week ahead.

To start, I’ve shopped my stores and cupboards and made my list, shopped for a few vegetables and made my menu plan for the week.

I’ve read the meters and submitted the readings on line. I’ve checked all my bills and made sure anything that needs paying has been paid such as my water bill that I pay monthly according to my usage.

I’ve checked my clothing for the week and have ironed anything I need.

I’ve also put a menu plan together to use what I have and give some variety to the week.


I would encourage anyone to menu plan. It can simply be fish fingers and peas on Monday, Tin of tuna, baked potato and mayo on Tuesday and so on. If you can plan the main meals of the week then you can make sure you use everything in the house. That way, nothing goes off, nothing gets wasted and you don’t shop for food you don’t need. It also gives you some variety? Do you eat pasta for almost every meal? Are you eating the same food day in day out? My lunches look the same but salad varies itself as does the protein, sometimes it’s a boiled egg, sometimes goat’s cheese other times some quinoa with dressing but I differ every day. As does our breakfast, sometimes we have a tin of broken mandarin segments, sometimes frozen (obviously defrosted) blueberries or raspberries. Sometimes I don’t bother with breakfast at all and just make myself a milky de-caff coffee…………..sometimes I don’t bother eating all day as I’m just not in the mood for food.

Plans don’t have to be ultra efficient, or followed to the letter but they give some structure in a chaotic world. It means I can control my spending, know when I have to carry money and when I have to leave my wallet at home. Having a day a week to get the household in order means you’ll have time the rest of the week without worrying about the bills or who is going to eat what?

Planning could take the place of a household schedule on a piece of paper and stuck to the fridge door with a magnet. I remember well the days for Boy’s brigade, Brownies, tennis, swimming, the museum art club and library days for the children. Most mothers can plan the children with military precision and running an organised home is no different. A cheap calendar will do. I always buy one late about mid January and have one in the kitchen and one in the office.

Now it’s your turn. How do you organise your home to save time and money? If you are disorganised, what are you going to do differently from this day onwards to save money and get your budget in order?

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxx

Fat free tea loaf, chocolate muffins and another quilt

Hello Dear Reader,

Today has been a busy and sociable day and though lovely, it was good to get home. I didn’t bake today, I baked on Thursday night and took the goodies into work to share. Nothing cheers a work place more than a bit of cake!

I made fat free tea loaf

You will need

4 tea bags to make a very strong 300ml of tea
300g of mixed fruit
350g of SR flour
1 teaspoon of ground allspice
1 beaten egg.

Make the tea and soak the fruit until the tea is cold
Mix all of the rest of the ingredients together.
Bake as one large cake in a loaf tin for 1 hour at 180/gas 4
or individual muffin cases for 20 minutes.

The loaf is great thinly sliced and served with butter. It’s also great with a zesty lemon glaze. Take 50g of icing sugar and drop lemon juice into it until you have the consistency that you would like. It should drop off your spoon so you can drizzle it on top of the cakes.


Chocolate muffins

I used:

4 eggs
225g of butter or marg
225g of SR flour
225g of sugar
2 heaped tablespoons of cocoa
1/4 of a jar of chocolate spread

Mix all of the above together to a smooth batter and spoon into individual muffin cases. Bake at 180 for 20 minutes.

When cool, slice off the top of the cake and spread chocolate spread liberally and replace the ‘lid’. Dust with icing sugar.

As ever, I always let you see a close up. I didn’t eat any of these but every one enjoyed them, even when I told them that they were entirely made from supermarket basics from Sainsbury’s. As usual, even though I was given the ingredients, my opinions are my own. I’ve always used supermarket basics from one supermarket or another and firmly believe them to be good value and quality. I can now add Sainsbury’s the list of ‘great basics’. Not just for someone on a budget but for anyone!

Last night, my quilt was still being quilted.

Tonight, my Scrappy Mountain Majesties quilt is backed, quilted and edged. It’s going off to London with Paul my PT who’s joining the Metropolitan Police at the end of February. It’s my thank you for his skills in making me believe in my own strength and health. I’m never going to be physically lazy ever again and I’m never going back to a size 18 ever again! The quilt is a very small thank you for his professional support.


The quilt (except the wadding) is completely made of recycled fabric and is made from shirts. I now have two more quilts to back (both gifts for friends and family) and quilt and then I can complete my scrappy crumb quilt that’s going on holiday to France with us this summer. Now that’s worth being frugal for and watching the pennies to save up for!

Over to you Dear Reader, who else has a short term financial goal that they are being frugal to save up for? Who else has baked this weekend and what did you make? Who else has finished or is in the middle of a craft project?

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxxx

How to make gluten free pasta and the rest of my day.

Hello Dear Reader,

What a day! Housework, library, salon for a tidy up, and a bake off. I’ve made pastry for the freezer so I can just pull it out when I need it. I’ve also made pasta, some we had for supper and some I’ve frozen in readiness to defrost and roll out when needed. I have no idea if gluten free pasta and pastry freezes well or if it’s edible once defrosted. I’ll test it so you don’t have to……oh go on then, I’ll take one for the team.

I used my food processor as any pastry or pasta I make by hand turns out to be in-edible, I can only assume I have hot hands or I am heavy handed. To make the gluten free pasta you will need:

Serves 6 - next time, I will halve this recipe.

300g of plain gluten free flour
1 tbsp of Xanthum gum,
1 tsp of salt (I thought the pasta tasted salty so you could experiment with none)
5 eggs
1 tbsp of olive oil.

Add the lot to a food processor, pulse until a dough.

Chill for at least 30 minutes.

Roll on a well floured board.

The secret of rolling:

  • flour, then roll
  • flour, fold and turn (normally you would fold over and run through a pasta machine over and over)
  • repeat six times until paper thin.
Roll into a tube as if you were rolling up a towel. Trim off the untidy ends (sounds like my trip to the salon!)

Cut into strips as wide as you need, from pappardelle to linguine. Separate by tossing in flour in a gentle movement.

My finished result is a bit rustic but it was fun to make and I know the egg content so it’s full of protein.

Drop into boiling water in small batches, then drop each batch into your pasta sauce. We had a carbonara sauce.

Carbonara Sauce.

150g of cooking bacon - finely diced
3 garlic cloves - finely diced
1 tbsp of gluten free flour
100g cheddar or any hard cheese - grated
500ml of skimmed milk - or any milk


  • Heat the frying pan and fry off the bacon (I also added five chopped mushrooms)
  • Add the garlic - fry until soft
  • Add the flour and stir through
  • Add the milk and blend through and then add the cheese
  • Heat until thickened and keep warm until needed.

I just dropped the pasta into the boiling water for little more than a minute. Two minutes cooked…..three minutes soup! So be careful!

Drain the pasta by lifting a portion at a time into a sieve and then add to the sauce, toss around and then serve.

There are ‘real’ Carbonara sauce recipes which require Parmesan, egg yolks and cream but my version is certainly cheaper and a bit lighter.


I also thought I would share my recent Approved Food acquisition. I bought GF bread mix for £2 a bag and from my experimentation, can make five loaves from one bag - so GF bread for 40p each. Much better than the £3.50 a loaf that I have been paying!!!

It has an unusual structure. I followed the instructions but used my bread machine instead. I added one more spoon of the mix when it seemed a little runny. Even the instructions on the pack describe the mix as a ‘batter’ instead of calling it a ‘dough’. I left it alone and it came out ok in the end and I can testify that it tastes great. I have four bags of this in my zombie apocalypse cupboard which will keep me going for a while. I’m building up quite a stock of reduced price AP GF stock cupboard ingredients.



And finally, I’ve been quilting away in between it all. My scrappy mountain majesties quilt, all made from old shirts in coming along quite nicely.


That’s my day! Hectic, I’m now off to read by the fire. This week I’ve read Good Vibrations by Tom Cunliffe, and A street cat named Bob by James Bowen and I’ve been working on using all the crumbs to make a crumb quilt from all the bits and pieces I have left in my fabric bin.

Tomorrow………….will probably be full of busy things that I will come back and share with you.

Over to you Dear Reader, hands up if you are a pasta maker? Who else can testify how fun and easy it is to make? Anyone else out there made a crumb quilt, again…………isn’t it fun!

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxx

Dirty food night in

Hello Dear Reader,

I headed to my Zombie Apocalypse cupboard for some inspiration tonight. I dragged out some of the Indian spice (real aficionados of spicy food look away as this has a tinge of flavour) mix to make a Chicken Tikka Masala.

I bought the Colman’s mix from Approved Food when they were four for £1 and then just stashed them for the day I needed them.

It’s so simple to make. Add half a family sized pot of natural yogurt that’s just about to turn, four too soft for salad chopped tomatoes, one starting to sprout and from the bottom of the basket onion, that’s also finely chopped, add two cubed chicken breasts and some lemon juice, add the the bag provided. Shake and seal then bake at 200 for forty minutes.

When cooked, add the last of the wilting corriander and serve with boiled rice.

Sprinkle with lemon juice and a hearty dollop of mango chutney. A pint of beer would have been nice but it’s no where near pay day. The store cupboard is a blessing when I need enthusiasm and ready ingredients.


I’m sure you could use the kit to make a vegetarian version of this by simply replacing the meat.

I’ve no idea how much this would cost at the take away. Here, the chicken breasts were £1 each, the rice was 7p, the onion 4p, tomatoes 46p, chutney 5p, lemon juice 2p(4 bottles for £1 from Approved Food) and yoghurt 30p. Chicken Tikka Masala - £1.47 per person.

Over to you Dear Reader, who else can beat the take away? Who else makes fish and chips at home? Or beats the burger bar? Share with all of us how you have a ‘dirty food night’ ?

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxx

Back to basics

Hello Dear Reader,

I’m taking part in Sainsbury’s basics challenge. It is not my normal supermarket but I will give anything a go in the name of market research. I was sent £20 and the invitation to go buy some of their basics range and then cook and blog about the recipes. It’s odd shopping in a normal supermarket and I did wonder why it needed to sell tellys and knickers as well as hoovers and pots and pans. I’m used to shops that just sell food and it would be easy to be lured into buying other goods. If you do shop in real supermarkets then take a list and stick to it as temptation is all around.

I decided to buy store cupboard staples and found there was a good selection in their basics range. Some I can’t eat such as bread, biscuits and starchy produce but nonetheless they had a great selection. I like the honesty that says that a few beans will be split, that it doesn’t have a fancy package, that the tomatoes may have skin on here and there but it’s still good food. Even though I paid more than I would for the regular brands at Aldi, I appreciate that not everyone has a Lidl, Aldi or local market near them. If Sainsbury’s was my only supermarket then I’m sure I would be glad of the basics range.


I’m going to be using these products in my cooking over the next few days and I will give feed back as I do along with recipes I try whilst using them. You can look at all their basics range HERE along with prices on Mysupermarket. Sorry if you’re in other countries, we do moan about food prices here but it’s evident from all you say that our food is much cheaper. Thank goodness as folk are struggling as it is!


Over to you Dear Reader, is anyone else a Sainsbury’s basics consumer? Who else is a big fan of supermarket basics range? Who thinks that they are not always the bargain they purport to be?

Even though I was given these groceries, I can assure you that my opinions of them will be entirely my own. If they are good, then I will say so and like wise, if I think they are not good value or you can get better for less else where, then I will say so.

As ever, I look forward to hearing from you.

Love Froogs xxxxxxxxx

Beef in Beer with wholegrain mustard croutons.

Hello Dear Reader,

If I were Worzel Gummage then I would say I’ve got my cooking head on. Some days, I just can’t be bothered and then I go through weeks when I’m Mrs Patmore. Well this is definitely a dish Mrs Patmore would rustle up only she would call it Carbonnade de Boeuf. The recipe, which originate in Belgium called for a dark Belgian beer but we had a lonely bottle of Tribute lurking from Christmas. I think any beer would do so long as it isn’t lager but a hoppy malty beer and I think this would work best with a can of Guinness.

Here’s the recipe - serves 4 and we’ll have ding-cuisine for lunch tomorrow.

400g of stewing steak - £1.70 - local butchers where I buy this in 2.35 kilo bags for £10.
4 carrots - 12p - sliced
1 leek - sliced - 20p
1 onion - finely diced - 4p
1 bottle of beer - 99p
stock cube
2 bread rolls - 20p (I pay more for gluten free)
wholegrain mustard
grated cheese - any strong cheese will do.- 30p
Gravy thickening - optional
Serve with half a bag of mixed frozen veg - stretch this with mashed potatoes or rice to go that bit further for bigger families.

total - £3.55 - 89p per person.



Before you go to work, everything except the bread, mustard and cheese into a slow cooker, add water if not covered. Switch on and go to work.

When you get home, heat the oven to a high setting or the grill and transfer the beery casserole to an oven proof dish.

Coat the bread slices with wholegrain mustard. Arrange them on top of the casserole with the mustard facing upwards. Sprinkle with cheese. I used Parmegiano as it goes a long way. Bake in the oven for 15-20 minutes.

Whilst dinner was cooking, I quickly and simply laid the table. We always eat here, chatting and putting the world to right.

Here’s the finished result with the crusty, tasty cheesy croutons.

Another angle.

And the close up.


Over to you Dear Reader, who else has Mrs Patmore days? Some days, I can barely open a packet and it will something from the freezer that’s just ready and to hand. Who else has Letitia Cropley days? That translates into days when you are a decent cook and days when you can burn water…….that’s me!

I’m quilting tonight so this is a short and sweet post.

St Austell Brewery did not give me the beer, but if they want to then email me and I will come and collect it!

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxxxxxxxxxx

How to get a grip of money

Hello Dear Reader,

We live in a world that tries to define us by what we own. Some people judge others by what they wear, what they own, the type of house they live in, what they eat, where they eat or where they go on holiday. I once fell into this trap. I believed that I went to work to have a good home, eat well, drive a decent car and wear good clothes. Then I stopped doing a job that didn’t fulfill me when I realised that money doesn’t make me any happier. When I earned less, I soon realised that having less money didn’t make me un-happy. Instead, it made me thrifty, resourceful, less wasteful and more appreciative of what I had.

We learned pretty rapidly to be a careful stewards of our resources. We learned not to waste anything and be resourceful with everything we had. Anything that could be re-used was and anything that could be fixed and used for longer was. We learned that with good planning and hard work that we could put aside and save. We were an invincible team and as we pulled together we just got stronger. We knew where we were going and worked for anything side by side.

It isn’t that easy for everyone. I know because you tell me. You are sometimes in uneven relationships where you are not both on board with the same plan. Some of you are on your own and are beset with feelings of being out of control. Some of you had the best plans, had the best team and worked really hard together and then illness, redundancy or even both came along and ripped the earth from under your feet. In our time together, Dearly Beloved has been made redundant and then faced redundancy again to be saved by a 10% pay cut. We’ve had our issues, our heart ache, our family break ups and our own personal demons to battle with. We might find it easy now but I can promise you we’ve been to the bottom and deeper in our own lives and know how hard the battle is to fight our way from the bottom.


Spenders often have no idea where their money went. They often have no idea why they booked a holiday when they couldn’t afford it, or why they booked that restaurant or why they agreed on that night out. So often, just like eating, spending is an emotional response and not a reasonable or rational one. If you can start to work out where your money goes and when you spend it, then you are at the start of the most difficult process of working out why you spent it. Sometimes, when you are at your very lowest, then that’s the time you booked that holiday, weekend away or meal out even when reason would tell you that you can’t afford it. Reason would tell you that you are saving for a house deposit, new car or wedding. Reason would tell you to save up first and then spend the money and not to just book it hoping that you will save the money. I have no advice on helping anyone to deal with the emotional response and you’ll need professional help on that one but I do know that when I let my head rule, then life became a lot more ordered and gained simplicity every day.

When I talk about getting to grips with money, I always clarify that what all of us need to do is get to grip with personal spending. The first point is to discover what we spend money on. Some people run a tight ship at home and then spend money loosely else where. The may spend too much money eating out, on takeaways, on their children or grandchildren (contentious but I need to throw that one out there!) or on their home. If you want to get a grip of your money then the first thing you need to be really honest about is what you spend money on.

When you’ve worked out what you spend your money on, the next stage is to work out when you spend it. Are you bored and lonely at home and spend money online on Ebay? Are you browsing the charity shops and car boot sales at the weekends because you are bored and think it’s only a few quid here and there when actually it’s a fiver or tenner a week and all you do is fill your wardrobe with clothes you don’t wear and your house with items you don’t need? Are you a coupon user and buy things just because you’ve accumulated enough discount that it’s cheap when you really don’t need it? Are you shopping in the supermarket without a list or menu plan and buy items you already have or didn’t intend to buy? Even worse, are you calling into the supermarket after work as you can’t remember what’s in the fridge and have no idea what the kids are eating for dinner tonight?

I can’t give you the answers but I can but share how I control my emotional spending (and eating).

  • I plan all my spending for they year. I have a spreadsheet and a wall calendar showing all the spending for the year. I know what’s coming up and I remind myself of it. I’m aware the next bill is for home and car insurance. I’m already eyeing up the best deals.
  • I plan my spending for the month. All direct debits go out on the first of the month. I budget for everything even down to hair cuts, the gym and my trainer. I know where every penny goes.
  • I keep busy. I know when I get bored and when I feel low. My ‘go to’ personal support is to keep busy. I cook, I clean, I sew, I go for a walk, I read, I watch TV, I read the papers online, I tidy my fabric, I groom my dogs. If I can sense a lapse then I literally distract myself. This is also my ‘go to’ response if I feel the need to eat when I’m not actually hungry.
  • I plan my leisure time. I make a list of everything I need to do at the weekend. I set the target of going for a walk and rain or shine, I go for a walk. I set the target of reading so many chapters or a set amount of quilt blocks.
  • I plan my social time and get together with friends every three weeks. That way, I don’t over commit and run out of time or steam.
  • I plan for my physical health. I get to bed early. I turn the TV off at nine pm. I drink a warm drink before I go to bed. I go to bed and get up at the same time every day. I exercise daily so my heart rate is raised and I’m sweating for an hour a day. I eat well. I eat to nourish and respect my body. I drink water, lots of water and haven’t had caffeine for years. I limit alcohol to a pay day bottle of wine. It’s amazing how much better my head is when I look after my body.
  • I plan for a happy marriage. We make time for each other. Date nights? No need for details but every waking opportunity is a ‘date night’ in our lives. We talk, we lay the table every day and sit facing each other and eat as if we were in a restaurant. Try it, turn off the TV and eat at the dining table and see how much more you discuss. We share roles and responsibilities and we sit and budget together and we discuss any potential spending.It’s amazing how well we can work together when we are both on the same page. Neither one of us needs the other and we’re both self supporting, we’re together and work together because we want to.
In essence, we have a tight grip on our money because we have a reasonable and ‘do-able’ grip of our own lives though we freely accept that we don’t know what’s around the corner and can’t possibly plan for all eventualities. We accept we are adults and have full responsibility for our own lives and destiny. We are responsible for our own happiness, our own schedules, our own social lives, our health, and our finances. We accept it’s hard but knuckle down and get on with it, whether we like it or not and I can assure you there are times when I don’ t like it. We sometimes have to steady each other and remind ourselves how transient this all is and that the sunshine will be here along with spring.

Over to you Dear Reader, are you a member of the ‘I’m an adult’ club who takes responsibility for their own well being and happiness? Are you in control? You don’t have to tell me but admit to yourself if you are not always in control and allow yourself to be governed by fleeting emotions. As ever, I love to hear from you.

Until tomorrow,

Love Froogs xxxxxxxxxxxx